What is Financial Abuse?

Financial abuse involves controlling a partner's access to financial resources, hindering their independence and ability to leave the relationship.

"I think I am being abused financially, but I'm not sure."

Financial abuse is a subtle yet devastating form of domestic abuse where one partner exerts control over the other's financial resources, limiting their ability to support themselves and make independent decisions. This manipulation can take various forms, including restricting access to money, sabotaging employment opportunities, and withholding information about finances or debts incurred in the victim's name.


The impact of financial abuse extends far beyond financial instability. It strips victims of their autonomy, self-confidence, and the means to escape abusive situations. With 1 in 4 women and 1 in 7 men experiencing severe intimate partner violence that can include financial abuse, the magnitude of this issue is undeniable.


Recognizing the signs of financial abuse is the first step towards empowerment. Victims may find themselves with no access to bank accounts, important documents, or may be forced to account for every penny spent. The abuser might also sabotage job efforts, making it impossible for the victim to gain financial independence.


For those trapped in this form of abuse, there is hope. Steps to regain financial autonomy include:


Educating Yourself:


Learn about personal finance and your legal rights concerning money and assets.


Seeking Confidential Help:


Reach out to organizations specializing in domestic violence and financial abuse. They can offer legal advice, financial counseling, and support in planning your escape.


Creating a Safe Exit Plan:


This may include setting aside emergency funds, securing important documents, and establishing a support network.


It's crucial for victims to know they're not alone and that help is available. Organizations such as the National Domestic Violence Hotline and local domestic violence shelters can provide assistance and resources to start the journey towards recovery and independence.


Financial abuse is a powerful tool in the arsenal of domestic abusers, designed to isolate and control. By shining a light on this often-overlooked aspect of domestic violence, we can empower victims to recognize the signs, seek help, and reclaim their financial independence. Together, we can support those affected and take a stand against all forms of domestic abuse.