Why Does He Do That?:

A Must-Read Journey to Freedom

When it comes to understanding the dark and convoluted corridors of abusive relationships, Lundy Bancroft's "Why Does He Do That?" gives victim-survivors clarity and hope. This book isn't just a read; it's an experience, a guide, and a lifeline rolled into one. It's easily one of our favorite domestic violence books.

Bancroft, with over two decades of experience counseling abusive men, pulls back the curtain on the thinking patterns, justifications, and manipulations of abusers. This isn't about surface-level advice; it's a deep dive into the psyche of men who control and hurt, offering a clear-eyed view of the signs, the situations, and the strategies for finding a way out.

What sets "Why Does He Do That?" apart is Bancroft's refusal to sugarcoat or simplify. He confronts the complexities head-on, delivering insights that resonate with the harsh realities many women face. Through the lens of his extensive experience, readers gain access to the early warning signs of abuse, the nature of abusive thinking, and the myths that often cloud our understanding of abusers.